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A Craigslist personals ad has been making the blogosphere rounds not because it’s an actual ad, but a laundry list of reasons why a particular man refused to buy a woman a drink at bar. Apparently this man felt it was really important to let all women know why women aren’t entitled to free drinks.
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My philosophy behind free drinks at bars is; If it’s offered, accept it. And that’s that. What’s your stance on accepting/receiving drinks at bars?
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^ Yeah, this guy does seem really down to earth. I like his reasoning.
YuliyaGeikhman said: I would buy this guy a drink. Then let him take me home.
I thought you were married, hmmm?? =P
It’s hard to find a guy like this who appreciates a good conversation with a person at a bar without thinking about taking her home for sex. He and I should be BFFs.
CSL_Cerulean said:
This guy is AWESOME for writing this! I am with you that if it is offered I will accept. However, there are conditions to accepting. 1)If the guy is a douchebag and it is obvious he is expecting to get into my pants, I will straight up refuse. 2) If I really am not interested AT ALL in him either as someone interesting to talk to or romantically I will politely decline but thank him for the offer anyways. 3)If I feel ok with the guy (as in he’s not a douche or serial killer and I could possibly be friends with him) but I am broke and wouldn’t be able to return the favor later, I will decline and say something like “Thank you but I didn’t bring enough cash or my credit card, so I won’t be able to buy the next round.”
I have a female friend (I use the term loosely) who definitely acts like the pretty hipster girl he describes. Its annoying to no end because on the rare occasion that I am the one noticed instead of her she will bully her way into the conversation and flat out ask “Hey, you’ve been talking to my girl for a while now. When are you going to buy us drinks?” Yes. I wish I was kidding. Hence, I barely hang out with her anymore.
I applaud this guy. Way to go for him!
Haha what she actually says that? Glad you don’t hang out with her anymore!
This guy is AWESOME for writing this! I am with you that if it is offered I will accept. However, there are conditions to accepting. 1)If the guy is a douchebag and it is obvious he is expecting to get into my pants, I will straight up refuse. 2) If I really am not interested AT ALL in him either as someone interesting to talk to or romantically I will politely decline but thank him for the offer anyways. 3)If I feel ok with the guy (as in he’s not a douche or serial killer and I could possibly be friends with him) but I am broke and wouldn’t be able to return the favor later, I will decline and say something like “Thank you but I didn’t bring enough cash or my credit card, so I won’t be able to buy the next round.”
I have a female friend (I use the term loosely) who definitely acts like the pretty hipster girl he describes. Its annoying to no end because on the rare occasion that I am the one noticed instead of her she will bully her way into the conversation and flat out ask “Hey, you’ve been talking to my girl for a while now. When are you going to buy us drinks?” Yes. I wish I was kidding. Hence, I barely hang out with her anymore.
I applaud this guy. Way to go for him!


Syndicator on Jan 25, 2012 08:45pm
bobamochi on Jan 09, 2012 02:00pm
AnabelStars on Feb 02, 2012 08:00pm
Syndicator on Feb 05, 2012 05:15pm
lil_bluey_bear on Jan 20, 2012 05:00pm

Yay! Someone who gets it!